Persuasion Doesn’t Have to be Manipulative — Try This Instead
Whether you accept it or not, we all persuade or get persuaded to do something on a daily basis.
But persuasion is more than that.
Persuasion is the art of convincing someone to not only take a particular action, but also adopt a certain belief, or change their mindset.
Now here’s the thing…
Persuasion can be used for good or bad, depending on the intentions and methods employed.
I personally believe in influencing others in a constructive way, with the goal of enhancing their lives, building relationships, and/or achieving common goals.
Why use manipulation when you can do it constructively? Right?
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Types of persuasive appeals
When you’re persuading someone, there are certain appeals you can use.
Appeals?
There are primarily 3 types of persuasive appeals:
- Emotional appeal: This involves appealing to someone’s emotions, such as fear, anger, or happiness, to convince them to take a particular action or believe a certain idea.
- Logical appeal: This involves using facts, evidence, and reasoning to convince someone to take a particular action or believe a certain idea.
- Ethical appeal: This involves appealing to someone’s sense of morality or ethics to convince them to take a particular action or believe a certain idea.
Once you understand the above appeals of persuasion, half of the job is already done.
But as I said, you can either use them in a good way or a bad way.
Persuading People Positively
Positive persuasion emphasizes ethical and honest communication.
Not like negative persuasion, which could use misleading or manipulative approaches.
The benefits?
- Enhances relationships: Positive persuasion can help build stronger relationships between you and the audience.
- Increases trust: By being transparent and honest, people are more likely to trust you and the message being presented.
- Reduces conflict: By using positive persuasion, conflicts can be resolved in a non-confrontational and constructive way. This helps to reduce tension and promote cooperation.
Now, the question is…
How do you do it?
Characteristics of Positive Persuasion
If you’re planning to persuade someone positively, your messages need to have are certain characteristics.
These are a MUST.
Empathy
Empathy involves understanding and relating to other people’s feelings and experiences.
By showing empathy, you can build rapport and establish a connection with the other person.
Respect
Respect means showing consideration and regard for the sentiments and ideas of others.
By showing respect, you can create a safe and welcoming environment for discussion.
Honesty
Honesty involves being transparent and truthful.
(Pretty obvious, isn’t it?)
By being honest, you can build trust and credibility with the other person.
Authenticity
Authenticity involves being true to oneself and communicating in a genuine and sincere way.
By being authentic, you can establish a connection and build trust with the other person.
When you incorporate these characteristics in your messaging?
You can increase your effectiveness in influencing others in a constructive and positive way.
Final Thoughts
Marketers & business people already get a bad rep for manipulating people.
It’s upto us to change that narrative.
So, let’s refrain from using misleading and manipulative approaches and choose positive persuasion.
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